{"id":3389,"date":"2025-09-26T15:16:11","date_gmt":"2025-09-26T08:16:11","guid":{"rendered":"https:\/\/kiddimath.edu.vn\/?p=3389"},"modified":"2025-09-24T15:23:16","modified_gmt":"2025-09-24T08:23:16","slug":"thau-hieu-cam-xuc","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/kiddimath.edu.vn\/en\/thau-hieu-cam-xuc\/","title":{"rendered":"Understanding Emotions"},"content":{"rendered":"

Your Child\u2019s Feelings Are Real \u2013 Listen Before You React<\/strong><\/h2>\n

Sometimes, children\u2019s emotions pass very quickly, yet those very moments can leave a lasting \u201cimprint\u201d in their hearts.<\/strong><\/h3>\n

Think of a child\u2019s feelings like clouds in the sky: some are light and gentle, others heavy and gray. For adults, these \u201csmall showers\u201d may seem insignificant, but for a child, they can feel like a storm. When parents dismiss or ignore those emotions, it\u2019s like telling the child: \u201cYou\u2019re not allowed to feel this way.\u201d<\/em> This unintentionally teaches children to hide their feelings instead of learning to understand and express them.<\/p>\n

So, instead of reacting right away with \u201cIt\u2019s nothing to be sad about\u201d or \u201cDon\u2019t cry anymore,\u201d try asking:<\/p>\n

\u201cCan you tell Mom and Dad what\u2019s making you feel this way?\u201d<\/p>\n

\"Th\u1ea5u<\/p>\n

Why is it important to acknowledge your child\u2019s \u201csmall\u201d emotions?<\/strong><\/h3>\n

According to John Bowlby\u2019s attachment theory<\/strong>, when children experience unconditional love, care, and understanding from their primary caregivers, they build a strong sense of trust in themselves and in the world around them. As a result, they become more confident, capable of forming healthy relationships, empathizing with others, and managing their emotions skillfully (McLeod, 2025).<\/p>\n

On the other hand, when children\u2019s emotions are frequently dismissed, they may struggle to express themselves, leading to emotional outbursts or withdrawal. This reduces their ability to empathize with others and fosters the false belief that \u201cfeelings are weakness and should not be shown.\u201d A child who knows they are loved will be stronger, more willing to take risks, and eager to explore the world around them.<\/p>\n

How can you support your child\u2019s emotions?<\/strong><\/h3>\n
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  1. \n

    Pause to listen<\/strong><\/h4>\n

    When your child is expressing emotions, stop what you are doing, make eye contact, and show them they truly have your attention.<\/li>\n

  2. \n

    Ask open-ended questions<\/strong><\/h4>\n

    Instead of asking \u201cAre you sad?\u201d, ask \u201cHow are you feeling?\u201d or \u201cWhat did that make you think about?\u201d Open questions encourage children to share more.<\/li>\n

  3. \n

    Name their emotions<\/strong><\/h4>\n

    For example: \u201cI see that you\u2019re disappointed because you couldn\u2019t keep playing.\u201d This helps children learn to identify emotions and find words to express them.<\/li>\n

  4. \n

    Share your own stories<\/strong><\/h4>\n

    Sometimes, telling your child that you\u2019ve also felt sad, angry, or worried helps them see that emotions are normal and something everyone experiences.<\/li>\n<\/ol>\n

    Understanding your child means giving them the right to feel<\/strong><\/h3>\n

    When a child feels that their emotions are respected, they also learn to respect the emotions of others. That becomes the foundation for empathy, resilience, and long-term happiness.<\/p>\n

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    References<\/strong><\/span><\/h3>\n

    McLeod, S. (2025, April 20). John Bowlby\u2019s attachment theory<\/em>. Simply Psychology.<\/span><\/p><\/blockquote>\n

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